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Chapter 4: Loving Ourselves and Others



Multiple Choice
Identify the letter of the choice that best completes the statement or answers the question.
 

 1. 

One of the reasons love may be so important in the United States is that much of every life is:
a.
perplexing
b.
impersonal
c.
ambiguous
d.
unrewarding
 

 2. 

Some who have studied modern society are warning against the ____ in our social world. The text seems to point to this issue as one of the reasons love is so important to people today.
a.
extreme rationality and individuality
b.
low levels of goal orientation and persistence
c.
low levels of logical planning and problem solving
d.
inordinately high levels of religious influence
 

 3. 

The concept of illegitimate needs directly involves which of the following?
a.
failures from the past that remain “unfinished business”
b.
requests by the loved one that just can’t be met by any reasonable person
c.
needs that have the potential to snowball into something more
d.
needs that most people would view as somewhat deviant
 

 4. 

According to the text, men in our society have great difficulty in:
a.
bridging the gap between liking and loving
b.
falling in love with women of their own social class
c.
establishing relationships between their lovers and their own parents
d.
communicating about love verbally
 

 5. 

Cancian argues that in our society _________are made to feel primarily responsible for the endurance or success of love.
a.
mothers
b.
psychological and psychiatric counselors and therapists
c.
women
d.
activity” industries, such as cruise boats, restaurants, and ski lodges
 

 6. 

The case study about Sharon and Gary, who discover love after twenty-five years, is about a couple who:
a.
marry, separate, and then rediscover love
b.
discover love after twenty-five years of singlehood
c.
are – separately – widowed, but then discover that they are still capable of loving
d.
marry, divorce, and then each finds love with a different partner
 

 7. 

Which of these is a friendly, affectionate, and companionate style of love?
a.
storge
b.
eros
c.
pragma
d.
agape
 

 8. 

The playful aspect of love is what is meant by which of the following styles of love?
a.
eros
b.
mania
c.
pragma
d.
ludus
 

 9. 

Mike and LaPrelle feel strong love for each other. Perhaps the most notable characteristic of their love relationships is that they have such a good time, get such a "kick" out of one another, and spontaneously laugh and joke as they go about their activities. These are hallmarks of a(n) _________ love relationship.
a.
storge
b.
eros
c.
agape
d.
ludus
 

 10. 

Unselfish concern for the beloved is the basic idea in which of the following styles of love?
a.
eros
b.
pragma
c.
ludus
d.
agape
 



 
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